Reasons to Work With a Mediator

Reasons to Work With a Mediator

Benefits of Choosing Mediation Conflicts and differences of opinion are human nature, but when an agreement is needed, it can be challenging to resolve when each person believes they are right.   Whether you are going through a messy divorce or simply cannot...
What is Mediation?

What is Mediation?

Many people perceive mediation as a process where one person demands 20 and the second person offers 10, so they split the difference and settle for 15.  Author Chris Voss writes in his excellent book “Never Split the Difference” that you should never split the...
What is Transformative Mediation?

What is Transformative Mediation?

I have had the good fortune of being an arbitrator and mediator for much of my thirty-seven year legal career.  Throughout my work in New York, Connecticut and around the country, I’ve had the good fortune to meet many lawyers who wanted to work in the mediation...
Mediation Versus Litigation?

Mediation Versus Litigation?

There is inevitable conflict in life. One of the things that we learn as trial attorneys is to advocate for our clients. When I was a young trial attorney, my only goal was to win every case. I would try every case with no thought of ever settling. This was about...